Healing Each Affair Lovingly (HEAL) Infidelity Support Groups

Who are HEALers?

We are thousands of compassionate people from all over the world thriving beyond betrayal.

• All are welcome  (English used in meetings*)

• We support both faithful and unfaithful partners. 

• We can be reconciling, separating, or uncertain.

What does HEAL offer?

• Support group meetings (separate by partner). 

• Online forums for sharing between meetings.

• Mentoring (1:1 support for newer members).

• Periodic joint meetings of both partners/couples.

How does HEAL do it?

The magic of HEAL lies in the empathy and experience of our members connecting in judgement-free, expertly facilitated spaces.

• We embody these agreements for safety, presence, and compassion.

• We have inclusive meetings (e.g., not women/men only, or reconciliation-focussed).

• We recognize that each healing journey is unique, so use no formulaic program. 

• We draw from evidence-based domains of healing, mindfulness, relationship practices, well-being, and positive psychology. 

• We are volunteers, who deepen our healing through giving back.

What do HEALers say?

As the top-rated infidelity support group in the world, members feel that HEAL is the most helpful aspect of their journey. For more, see all infidelity supports, these testimonials, or all our reviews. 

• "In more than two years of therapy, books and courses, I've never had a more positive or helpful experience." ~ Rosa
• "The most healing place I have found in my whole life." ~ Jenn
• "For the first time since my infidelity, I feel at home and not alone." ~ Eric
• "This group, and this man, saved my life." ~ Jane

How do I join HEAL?

1. Faithful/betrayed partners click here. Unfaithful/wayward partners click here.*

2. Click "Ask to join" or "Sign in" with a Google account.

3. You will be added shortly, after which you can set your display name and more.

4. After joining, please make a donation (see below) to help with costs and grow HEAL.

Is HEAL really free, and can I donate?

Our volunteer-run groups are always free, but please consider making a donation (or Paypal) based on this sliding scale of suggested amounts. Donations help with costs and to grow HEAL.

Is HEAL too good to be true?

HEAL is the real deal. A first-time member wrote: "I wondered if this group was a scam, but after experiencing the safety, support, and authenticity of tonight's meeting, I know this group is 100% legit." Find out for yourself by joining. You risk a little time, but can gain back your love for life. We are one the best supports available for those impacted by infidelity.

Can I get support right now?

• Check out these top healing resources (including post-discovery first aid, self-care/self-love playsheet, and trigger toolkit). 

• Access best-in-class coaching for you and/or your partner (new members get a free session after sharing in one meeting).