Healing Each Affair Lovingly (HEAL) Infidelity Support Groups

We are so glad you found HEAL, and welcome you (and your partner) to join our free support groups. HEAL helps people all over the world find thriving, trust, joy, and love beyond infidelity. Together, we shine a healing light on affairs through sharing, evidence-based strategies, and mutual support.

❤️‍🩹 Who are HEAL members?

HEAL members are compassionate people from all over healing and growing after relationship betrayal. Our groups welcome everyone, no matter how they identify, and we do not promote any religion or belief system. HEAL also provides support to both the betrayed and wayward partners, and members can be separating, reconciling, or uncertain. HEAL facilitators, mentors, and the founder volunteer their time: giving back for support received in their own healing journeys. We are truly in this for each other.

❤️‍🩹 What does HEAL do?

HEAL is all about thriving beyond infidelity. Our #1 focus is holding free, regular, support group meetings, which we have done for over one thousand members since 2014. Our meeting agreements convey the feeling of being in a meeting: safe, compassionate, respectful, accepting, and deep. We don't partner bash, and we have separate groups for both faithful and unfaithful partners. We even have (optional) joint meetings for both partners or couples. We recognize that a communal, empathy-based approach to support benefits everyone. 

Each HEAL group has a separate, dedicated online forum where you will find meeting information, healing resources, and can interact with other members in between meetings. All HEAL activity is currently in English, but let us know if you can help provide support in other languages. We even have a mentorship program that matches new and experienced members for one-to-one support.

❤️‍🩹 How does HEAL do it?

Each healing journey is unique, so HEAL does not use a 12-step model or any other formulaic approach. The magic of a well-run support group lies in the courage, empathy, grace, inspiration, wisdom, experience, understanding, and healing strategies/stories shared by members in a judgement-free space. HEAL also shares research from evidence-based domains of healing, mindfulness, relationship practices, wellness, and positive psychology to help every member powerfully. HEAL is a volunteer organization, supported only by member goodwill and donations. 

❤️‍🩹 What do HEALers (members) say?

Members agree we are the top-rated and longest running support group worldwide. Visit alove.ca/infidelity-support for more member comments, read testimonials going back over the years, or check out all our Google reviews. 

• "In more than two years of therapy, books and courses, I've never had a more positive or helpful experience." ~ Rosa
• "The most healing place I have found in my whole life." ~ Jenn
• "This group, and this man, saved my life." ~ Jane

❤️‍🩹 Is HEAL legit?

A first time member shared (at our May, 2025 meeting): "I wondered if this group was a scam, but after experiencing the safety, support, and authenticity of tonight's meeting, I know this group is 100% legit." Find out for yourself by joining. You risk only a little of your time, but have your whole, precious life to gain. HEAL is the real deal.

❤️‍🩹 How do I join HEAL?

Click the appropriate group link below to join. All groups are private, and your name can be set to your account default, or anything you wish. We also have a web presence on Facebook, and at alove.ca/infidelity-support to help people find us, but the links below directly join you up.

1. Click here to join our group for faithful/betrayed partners, then click "Ask to join" or "Sign in" with a Google account first. 

2. Click here to join our group for unfaithful/wayward partners, then click "Ask to join" or "Sign in" with a Google account first.

❤️‍🩹 Can I get some support right now?

• Check out these top healing resources (including post-discovery first aid, self-care/self-love playsheet (in 3 parts), trigger toolkit) and other books and resources. 

• Access best-in-class coaching for you and/or your partner (new members get a free session after they have attended a meeting).

• After joining above, share as much or as little of your story as you wish in our group forum (my story is here). 

❤️‍🩹 Is HEAL really free?

Yes, HEAL groups are always free and open to anyone, no fees are required. Facilitators and mentors are group members who volunteer their time to support others. Optional donations are greatly appreciated to offset our web, meet, and content costs, as well as to grow HEAL as an organization. To donate, use Stripe, Paypal, or contact me to arrange an e-transfer or other method. Check out these suggested donation amounts based on financial means. Members can also give back or offer service in a variety of other ways.