HEAL Infidelity Support Groups for Both Partners
Service is selfless but it is also selfish since it supports and heals everyone involved. Service can also lead to self-transcendence, a lasting source of peace and meaning. If HEAL has helped you to thrive beyond infidelity, please consider giving back your energy and experience back in some way.
🔂 = one-time thing
🫰 = super simple
🗓️ = ongoing commitment (but stop any time)
🥷 = some skills required (training available)
Post your story or respond to others in our group online forum (betrayed or wayward): sharing helps everyone.
Attend support group meetings to benefit from the community and add your light to it.
Join a meeting as a (mostly) healed "graduate" to show newer members how journeys can go and flow.
Suggestions or feedback are great gifts that improve the HEAL experience for everyone.
Offer general suggestions to me personally (anonymous option).
Give feedback as part of our yearly review (watch for the forum message at the start of each year).
Write a public review to help others understand what we offer and attract new members.
Meetings are always free, but donations (always optional) help with ongoing costs and to expand offerings. To donate, use Stripe, Paypal, or contact me to arrange an e-transfer or other method. Check out these suggested donation amounts based on financial means.
Mentors are experienced HEAL members who provide one-on-one support to new members (whether the faithful or unfaithful partner). Read all about mentorship and express interest in being a mentor or mentee here.
Those willing to read, review, provide a personal story, and/or help in any way with a "big book" of infidelity healing, please connect.
Support groups need caring facilitators to create a safe container, invite check-ins, guide discussion, and ensure everyone has a voice. More facilitators means more HEAL meetings can be offered of different types, and for people around the world in different time zones and languages. Connect with me to get started, check out our simple meeting guide and choose from a range of commitment levels. It's really not that hard!
Co-facilitate: with another facilitator, as long as you need to feel comfortable.
Coverage: facilitate occasional meetings, covering for other facilitators.
Part-Time: facilitate meetings solo, once every other month, alternating with another facilitator.
Full-Time: facilitate a regular monthly meeting solo.
Get in touch if you want to support HEAL organizationally: welcoming new members, editing resources, coordinating mentorship, and more.
